027 // Do You Have to Feed Your Wedding Vendors? | Maui Wedding Planning Etiquette
Description
If you're planning a Maui destination wedding, you’ve probably wondered: Do I have to feed my wedding vendors? In this episode, Maui wedding planner Ashley Ulery shares her honest (and spicy!) take on vendor meals—what's expected, what’s reasonable, and what not to do.
You’ll learn:
What a vendor meal is and when it’s required
The 4-hour rule every couple should know
Why vendors should not eat when guests eat
Whether it's ever okay for vendors to go through the buffet line
The small gesture that vendors never forget
Whether you’re a Maui bride, a groom, or just getting started with your wedding planning checklist, this episode will help you feel confident handling vendor meals the right way—with clarity, care, and a whole lot of aloha.
Mentioned in this episode:
Rule of thumb: Feed any vendor working 4+ hours
Vendor meals don’t need to be fancy—just thoughtful and timely
Why guest experience comes first
How planners coordinate meal timing with caterers
Why the phrase “Have you eaten?” means so much on a wedding day
Connect with Ashley:
💻 Website: https://adreamwedding.net
📸 Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui
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